I feel angry and hurt by the response I received from a grant application. How do I embrace the busyness of the life I say I want, without completely ignoring self care? Should I first try to draw a boundary with an employer or just walk away from the opportunity altogether? I’m worried that my tendency to get distracted could create problems in my new job. I’ve decided to withdraw from a school program but I’m not sure if I should try to fight not to pay the outstanding tuition.